I accidentally came across this book a couple of months or so ago when I noticed the author somewhere else online. I've been dealing with a friend (online, of course) who is completely afraid to date, yet at 44 is so depressed because he still is alone. I've been anticipating the book for a couple of months now and had mailed the author, but he said it was not yet out in print. He was very polite and helpful and I received it last week finally, directly from the author who preshipped a courtesy copy for my patience and let me tell you......WHAT A BOOK!

Although my friend needs the help desperately, I promised not to ship it to him until I had read it first to make sure I thought it could help him. I haven't been able to put it down! I honestly was amazed at how much even I got out of the book when it was for someone else to begin with! I plan to utilize this book in so many of my own everyday activities and although I promised my friend this copy, he's going to have to wait till I buy another copy for him! :)